Kabi and Mungai Eve recently discussed the importance of formal commitment in relationships, attributing the rise in breakups to the lack of seriousness in casual unions.
During an interview with Mungai Eve, Kabi reflected on his past advice to Mungai and her ex, Trevor Director, urging them to take their relationship more seriously.
“I used to ask your ex what he wanted with you. I would advise him to take action and marry you so things would be streamlined. I even asked you the same thing. It’s easy to part ways with someone you don’t have a covenant with. Love (Milly) and I bore each other sometimes, but there’s a lot that binds us. We can’t just wake up and say it’s over; even if we did, it would take time,” Kabi explained.
He clarified that his comments were not meant to condemn cohabitation but to encourage young people to approach relationships more intentionally. “If young people can be taught to do things the right way, marriages will improve in the future,” he added.
Mungai Eve, reflecting on her past, agreed with Kabi, saying, “As a former cohabitor, I totally agree with you. Mistakes were made, and it will never happen again.” She revealed that she moved in with her ex out of desperation.
“I ended up in a come-we-stay relationship because I didn’t want to stay at my parents’ home, and I had nowhere else to go. I met this person in late 2019, and we barely knew each other,” she admitted.
Kabi also shed light on his dynamic with his wife, Milly, and their occasional silence on social media, attributing it to the challenges of marriage.
“Sometimes, it feels like I’m forcing her to be on social media, which can be frustrating for both of us. When we’re silent, it might be because Milly has refused to record, or we’re going through a hard time in our marriage. We prefer to resolve issues before bringing them online,” Kabi shared.
