Renowned Nairobi-based lawyer Steve Ogolla has found himself at the center of a social media storm involving his ex-wife Elseba K’Okeyo, popularly known as Cebbie Koks, and his new partner Ivy Bavolyne.
What started as a quiet separation between Ogolla and Cebbie toward the end of 2023, following their much-publicized traditional wedding in December 2022 in Migori County, has now morphed into an explosive online feud that has captured national attention.
Cebbie Accuses Ogolla and Ivy of Cyberbullying
Through her social media posts, Cebbie Koks alleged that her ex-husband and his current partner, Ivy Bavolyne, have been behind coordinated online attacks meant to humiliate and bully her since their breakup.
According to Cebbie, the trolling intensified after she chose to publicly move on from the relationship. She accused Ogolla of spreading false claims that she has been pleading for reconciliation and that he continues to financially support her even after their separation.
“These lies are meant to paint me as desperate and dependent,” Cebbie reportedly wrote, adding that she has endured months of character assassination online.
Lawyer Ogolla Responds to Allegations
Advocate Steve Ogolla, in response, dismissed the accusations as baseless and malicious, insisting that he has maintained silence and dignity since their breakup.
He also confirmed that his relationship with Ivy Bavolyne is genuine and serious, describing her as his “to-be wife.”
However, reports circulating online suggest that Ivy herself has been dragged into the chaos, with some social media users accusing her of fueling the feud by mocking Cebbie through cryptic posts and comments — claims she has not publicly addressed.
Dowry Drama: Ogolla ‘Vows to Reclaim Cows’
The online saga took a dramatic twist on Sunday after reports surfaced that Ogolla allegedly plans to reclaim the dowry cattle he paid to Cebbie’s family during their grand traditional wedding in 2022.
Sources close to the lawyer claim that the move is part of a formal separation process between the two families. The December 2022 ceremony, held in Migori, was one of the most lavish traditional weddings of the year, attended by top politicians, clergy, and entertainment figures.
If true, the decision could spark cultural and legal debate about dowry refunds under Kenyan customary law — a matter often riddled with emotional and traditional complexities.
Fans and Public React Online
The unfolding drama has triggered thousands of reactions online, with Kenyans expressing mixed emotions.
Some sympathized with Cebbie for the alleged online bullying, while others defended Ogolla and Ivy, urging privacy and restraint.
Social media commentator Andrew Kibe and entertainment blogger Edgar Obare have also weighed in on the situation, calling it “a lesson in modern relationship transparency.”
For context on dowry and customary law in Kenya, visit the Kenya Law website for official legal insights.
A Timeline of the Ogolla-Cebbie Relationship
- December 2022: Steve Ogolla weds Cebbie Koks in a colorful traditional wedding in Migori.
- Late 2023: Rumors of separation surface after Cebbie deletes wedding photos from her social media.
- Early 2024: Ogolla confirms separation but remains silent on details.
- October 2025: Cebbie accuses Ogolla and Ivy of online bullying and manipulation.
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