Nairobi, Kenya – October 7, 2025 — Former Deputy President Rigathi Gachagua has joined the ongoing “Marriage hubamba mafala” conversation that has taken over Kenyan social media in recent weeks.
Speaking in a recent interview, Gachagua urged Kenyans not to write off the institution of marriage based on social media trends but to view it as a lifelong commitment that demands effort, patience, and understanding.
“Marriage works, but it’s not a bed of roses. You have to work on it,” Gachagua said.
He explained that marriage requires compromise and communication between two individuals from different backgrounds and upbringings.
“Two people were born separately and brought up differently — getting together to think and align the same way, it’s not easy,” he added.
Origin of the Phrase
The viral phrase “Marriage hubamba mafala” was first coined by content creator Chebet Rono, who posted it online, sparking a nationwide debate. Her comment — suggesting that marriage isn’t as glamorous or exciting as often portrayed — quickly resonated with many Kenyans and celebrities who joined the conversation, sharing their views and experiences.
The topic has since inspired countless memes, online discussions, and even public figures weighing in on what makes marriage work in the modern age.
